Deepertruth: How Can a Man Build a Strong Personality?

How Can a Man Build a Strong Personality? As a man you have to walk a fine line between SELF-CONFIDENCE and HUMILITY. You have to learn how to handle ANYTHING, from a dirty diaper to a mugger to a volcanic eruption, and do it right the first time. What you can’t do is be proud or arrogant about it; don’t brag, just do your best and don’t seek recognition; do your best in all things because you need to know you can do it and do it for God's glory. That confidence will carve itself into your face and bearing- you won’t need to brag, and eventually you won’t want to brag. You will be self-assured anywhere, with anyone.  That’s a never=ending process. You also have to learn how to gracefully seek help when you don’t have a clue how to handle something. When you get that help, PAY ATTENTION and add it to your toolbox of skills- always be grateful to your teachers. Never be afraid to learn anything. That keeps you humble and keeps others willing to help you. You have to learn to share what you know with humble confidence. Give anything asked of you freely- be clear and direct without being overbearing in your teaching. Others will seek you out for this. You will be respected for your strengths and your generosity. Some of the most graceful and successful men are guys that have managed to put their ego behind them and simply act with empathy towards everyone they meet.